Where coming alone is on brand

Making friends as an adult shouldn't be this hard.

Real-life events, new experiences and a whole lot of lovely women you haven't met yet. Come on your own. Most of us do.

Coming up Your next event

is already in the diary.

Booked through Cliq, our ticketing platform — grab a spot and everything you need lands in your inbox.

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How it works Coming alone?

You're in good company.

Turning up solo is the whole point — here's exactly what happens, so there are no surprises.

1

Book your place

Find an event you fancy and book your spot in a couple of taps.

2

We'll keep you posted

Everything you need lands before the event — including any pre-event mixer or group chat details.

3

Turn up & say hi

Meet your fellow attendees. At seated socials we use randomised seating, so everyone meets new people.

4

Enjoy it

See where it takes you — new plans, new group chats, new friends.

“

I nearly cancelled three times. Then I sat down at a table of women who'd all come alone too, and within ten minutes it felt like we'd known each other for years.

— A first-timer's story (placeholder — swap for a real one)
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Explore our communities One umbrella,

lots of ways in.

Whatever your pace — bottomless brunch or a Monday night 5k — there's a corner of the community with your name on it.

Real women. Real stories. We met at

The Social Thirties.

No stock photos here. This is the actual community, at actual events.

Sarah smiling at a Social Thirties event

"Three out of seven days this week, I've hung out with women I met through TST. I even run into group members when I'm out at bars now. I don't think I realised how much I needed this community until I had it."

Sarah, who first walked into a TST event solo in February 2026
Members holding their paintings at art club

"This isn't networking. It's not about being 'out there'. It's about finding your people in your thirties — when friendships matter more than ever."

The Social Thirties ethos
Goat yoga in a field
A member smiling at a races event
Founder Courtney at a Social Thirties event
The founder Meet Courtney.

She built the community she needed.

The Social Thirties came from Courtney's own experience of loneliness and wanting to meet new people. What started with a Facebook post and a brunch has grown into a community of thousands of women — with brunches, run clubs, book clubs and big days out all over the calendar.

"I just wanted somewhere you could turn up on your own and leave with plans for next weekend. Turns out a lot of us did."
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Come alone.

Leave connected.

Your first event is the hardest one to book — and the best decision you'll make all month.

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